Dating a german 18 yr old dating
Every country has their own culture and customs to be followed, including in dating.
As for European country, they indeed as modern as America, but they have several conservative rules when it comes to a man- woman relationship.
If you are not German native or have never been to Germany, you may find some cultures very different than yours. Ask them directly Most German are open minded and don’t like anyone who beat around the bush.
Nevertheless, if you are dating a German, or going to live there, you have to be accustomed by their dating culture in Germany. They prefer a direct question in anything, and prefer people who speaks their mind freely.
Germans rarely offended by these kind of questions, and they definitely will give you the same straightforward answer.
But if you just meet him or her, or it hasn’t been to long after both of you meet, don’t ask a very personal question. Paying the bills The gender role differences in Germany is not as strong as it is in America or Sweden.
While couples in both countries tend to split the bill between themselves, German men are okay with taking all the bills. If you happen to have a conservative mind, and your boyfriend is the modern ones, he may wonder why he should take all the bills.
But for some other German men, letting women paying their bills themselves is an insult to their pride.
If you happen to be someone on your late teens or early 20s and dating someone from your peers, it will be better for you two to split the bills.
You can’t expect you boyfriend (who is still a collage student) to pay for your meals while he himself hasn’t has a steady income yet. Equality above everything Germans living with equality for men and women. German couples split the house rent evenly between men and women.
They also see each other as a strong and independent person, so you will rarely see a man opens the door for her woman.
Not that they don’t care, but men sees women can be perfectly well on their own.
Oh, and yes, women doesn’t has this privilege in public spaces – if you are the last person to board the bus, no one will offer their seat for you even if you are a pregnant women. Germans do not tell lie, even to their partner Every country has their own means to show “politeness”.