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I kind of like it, too, although I should get my quibbles out of the way first.The shirt suggests that we’re talking not about an adult woman but an underage daughter.And while I know we all thought we knew everything when we were 15, we in fact knew nothing at all whatsoever oh my goodness wasn’t it embarrassing we were so foolish I’m so glad we survived how did we survive.So the idea that parents wouldn’t have dating rules during the parenting process is mostly just an abdication of parenting as opposed to some kind of feminist empowerment thing.It took me years to realize this but parents who didn’t have rules for their teens tended to be parents who just didn’t care enough about their kids to provide guidance.But that gets me to the main reflection of this piece.While the shirt claims it’s from “feminist father” — it actually has some really good ancient wisdom woven throughout it.
As the National Fatherhood Project puts it: They also have data suggesting that the absence of a father is tied to greater risk of abuse, neglect, malnutrition, obesity, delinquency and incarceration, aggressive behavior and relationship instability.
So just the presence of this father is a powerful, powerful message to the daughter and to those she might date.
And his mere presence is a positive factor in all sorts of outcomes.
It’s totally controversial to say it, but it’s also true, that women are generally the ones in a sexual relationship to decide what level of intimacy — and when — will occur.
Here’s an animated discussion of some of why that is: Some feminists objected to that video on the grounds that “it’s bursting with false and blatantly sexist claims, like the ideas that men want sex more, women want marriage more, and the decline of marriage rates will destroy the world.” Ah yes, where would anyone get the idea that men generally want sex more?